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The 4th success principle proposed by W. Clement Stone and Napoleon Hill in “Success Though a Positive Mental Attitude” is Accurate Thinking.

This one seemed pretty obvious to me. Of course we have to think accurately! Being the analytical, straight line guy that I am, I have a real problem with fuzzy thinking. I always prefer the straight line approach.

Or do I?

How many times have I read yet another self-help/personal development book, thinking “Now this one is SURE to work!”, after a half-hearted failed attempt at practicing the principles of the last one I read?

How many times have I checked, and rechecked, and rechecked the stats on this blog, and wondered why my readership hasn’t gone up? Could it be because I’m spending all of my time and energy checking my stats, and none creating something of value?

How many times have I told myself that I’m “logical, analytical, and intelligent”, while lighting a tube full of tobacco that increases my chances of contracting cancer and heart disease? Is my logic and intelligence driving me at those moments?

Those are only three of the ways that I delude myself regularly; if I spent any real time on it, I could probably come up with 25 more.

And there are probably another 25 that I’m not even aware of.

One of the biggest suggestions that authors make is that we realize that we are driven by emotion. I remember reading a Hazelden pamphlet a while back (that I’ve long since forgotten the name of) that said something along the lines of “Our thoughts direct our sails, our emotions are the winds the drive the boat.”

Anyone who thinks that they are guided by reason alone is not practicing accurate thinking.

So what do we do about this? How do we, as the authors put it, “clear the cobwebs from our mind?”

We learn to direct our thoughts.

We decide to, as Wallace Wattles says in “The Science of Getting Rich”, engage in that work from which most men shirk: the work of controlling our thinking.

None of this is easy… it takes a lot of practice. Some may “get it” faster than others, but I truly believe that anyone with at least a partially functioning nervous system can do it with practice.

Practice thinking what you want to think.

If you want to be successful, you must practice thinking like those who are successful.

If you want to be unsuccessful, practice thinking like the unsuccessful.

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