It’s been quite a while since I wrote a post on gratitude, but a few things, as well as a few new understandings, have come into my life that I’m extremely grateful for.
This was inspired by a couple of books that I finished reading yesterday. As a matter of fact, this article started off as an exploration of those books – but I realized that it goes much deeper than the books themselves.
I’m grateful to my mom and dad (if I remember right, it was mostly my mom) for giving me a love of reading. It’s opened up worlds to me that I would never have known, and it gave me a desire to produce the same thing – words that will uplift, inspire, and show others a way out of suffering.
One of the books I finished yesterday was a gift from Nneka of Balanced Life Center – Open Secrets – The Letters of Reb Yerachmiel ben Yisrael by Rabbi Rami M. Shapiro. It sat on top of my computer monitor, unread, until just about a week ago. It’s given me a new understanding of God, and I feel like I’ve finally got a rational way to look at myself and my relationship to the I Am. I’ve always known that they are one and the same, but I guess it took a teacher from a familiar, traditional religion to help this spiritual atheist become comfortable with the G word.
The second book is by Eckert Tolle – A New Earth – Awakening To Your Life’s Purpose. I was first told about it by Deborah, and I was able to purchase it from Amazon.com because of a gift from Karen. I’ve been reading on my lunch hours at work.
The biggest thing I think I got from this particular book was the idea that What we do isn’t quite as important as How we do it (a very similar idea to doing things in the “Certain Way” a la The Science of Getting Rich). The What is secondary to the How… because no matter what it is we are doing, we can only do it now… and to worry about the what takes us away from that.
I also got a new look at the idea of reincarnation from this one. While Buddhism is one of the religions that I often feel most in touch with, I’ve never held much stock in the idea of rebirth – I’ve always figured that I would take it One Lifetime at a Time. But Tolle gave me a new understanding of it – we are always being reincarnated, every single moment… and Karma affects us right now.
In just a few paragraphs, I’ve already mentioned quite a few people and things to be grateful for:
My Ability to Read
My Parents
Nneka
Open Secrets
Rabbi Rami M. Shapiro
Eckert Tolle
A New Earth
Deborah
Amazon.com
Karen
If I look even deeper, though, there is so much more beyond these things to be grateful for.
Look at the first one on my list: My Parents
If my parents hadn’t had sex back in 1969, I wouldn’t be writing this today.
If my grandparents hadn’t done it way back when, I wouldn’t be writing this today.
If I continue to go back as far as is rationally possible, if the Big Bang [chuckle] hadn’t happened (if it really did), I wouldn’t be writing this today.
OK, I’ll get off of the sex thing now.
What about the people who published these books? What about DARPA, the creators of the internet, which brought all of these people, organizations, books into my life? What about the nameless editors, warehouse workers, shipping personnel, the people who fed them, the cars they drove, the cell phones they used, and the people who created those… all of the things that came together to create this moment.
Without billions of people, alive and dead, I wouldn’t be writing this today.
Thank you – in some way, you who are reading this have touched my life.
The next time you want to generate some gratitude, just pick anything in your environment that you are glad you have… it can be anything – the cup that holds your coffee, the chair you are sitting in, the computer or paper you are reading this on…
Then think about where it came from. And where that came from. And where that came from.
And realize just how much the universe had to conspire to get that cup of coffee, or book, or chair, or computer into your life.
It’s all connected. It’s always now. And it’s all God.
And for these things… I’m truly grateful.
[This post has been submitted to the 2007 Season of Gratitude project on Balanced Life Center]
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Lyman,
I love hearing about wonderful books, you know I love books.
I saw that Eckhardt Tolle book at the library (another thing I’m grateful for!) so I will have to check it out along with the others!
It is so fun when something virtual (from online and the blogging community) becomes real and concrete! I love that you got a wonderful book from my contest! That makes me happy!
Enjoy your week of Gratitude and the Holiday! Thanksgiving is such a wonderful concept!
I know you love them as much as I do, Karen. And it is great to know that your gift came full circle… I hope you enjoy the Tolle book as much as much as I did.
Thanks for sharing.
I loved Eckhart Tolle’s book. It taught me to lose some of those old conventions and conceptualizations I had nurtured over the years and allowed for me to bring about paradigm shifts in my mind and in my life.
Hi Lyman,
Walking out of church today I was struck by the realization that while it seems to be relegated to second-class status among holidays, Thanksgiving – a day devoted to gratitude – may be the single most important day of the year. If we choose to observe it as such.
Mike
David: You’re welcome.
Mike: You may be right… a day devoted to gratitude and appreciation – what could be more of a holy day than that?
Hi Lyman, it’s so cool that Open Secrets made such a profound impact. I’m really glad you liked it. You never know with these things.
Cheers,
Nneka
It really did, Nneka… the similarities to some of the other religions and spiritual paths I’ve studied are amazing. Thank you again for sending it.
You wrote…If I continue to go back as far as is rationally possible, if the Big Bang [chuckle] hadn’t happened (if it really did), I wouldn’t be writing this today…” and I couldm’t help but add “if God hadn’t created all the stuff that made the Big Bang go bang…”
Thanks for writing about gratitude. I need to think more about that sometimes.
Dear Lyman,
So glad you enjoyed Tolle. Ah yes, gratitude. I am forever
grateful and have been reading the Season of Gratitude submissions.
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts with us.
Mom – I need to as well.
Deborah – Aren’t they fabulous? Nneka really came up with a winner with this writing project. And thank you again for letting me know about the book.
Great Post! Indeed we should be grateful of everything around us. I am grateful that you write to inspire people. Keep up the good work.
Love & Gratitude,
Tina
Think Simple. Be Decisive.
~ Clarity & Happiness
Thanks, Tina. I appreciate your kind words and your gratitude.
Lyman, it is good to see you back writing. Nneka has enriched all of our lives with her Season of Gratitude.
Patricia – it’s good to be back to the writing… and Nneka’s Season of Gratitude series is great!
There are so many simple things in life that we should be thankful for. Those you mentioned are just one of those things. Keep up the positive attitude and you will reach a stage of fulfillment in your life.