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		<title>By: How to Find Something to be Happy About &#124; Creating a Better Life</title>
		<link>http://creatingabetterlife.net/2008/09/25/your-lips-say-no-but-your-eyes-say-yes/comment-page-1/#comment-16751</link>
		<dc:creator>How to Find Something to be Happy About &#124; Creating a Better Life</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 12:12:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Lyman Reed</title>
		<link>http://creatingabetterlife.net/2008/09/25/your-lips-say-no-but-your-eyes-say-yes/comment-page-1/#comment-16750</link>
		<dc:creator>Lyman Reed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 03 Oct 2008 00:13:25 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@stubsy - &quot;it&#039;s best to move on from certain things as opposed to trying to fight them.&quot;

Absolutely.  It&#039;s amazing to me the number of things that I&#039;ve allowed to mess with my own emotions simply because they weren&#039;t the way I thought they should be.

Thanks for the comment.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@stubsy &#8211; &#8220;it&#8217;s best to move on from certain things as opposed to trying to fight them.&#8221;</p>
<p>Absolutely.  It&#8217;s amazing to me the number of things that I&#8217;ve allowed to mess with my own emotions simply because they weren&#8217;t the way I thought they should be.</p>
<p>Thanks for the comment.</p>
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		<title>By: stubsy</title>
		<link>http://creatingabetterlife.net/2008/09/25/your-lips-say-no-but-your-eyes-say-yes/comment-page-1/#comment-16746</link>
		<dc:creator>stubsy</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Oct 2008 11:25:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I read recently that unhappiness is over-focusing on the small things that are wrong. Something or someone is imperfect, so let’s get mad or unhappy.

I think you read right, I am starting to learn its best just to move on from certain things as opposed to trying to fight them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I read recently that unhappiness is over-focusing on the small things that are wrong. Something or someone is imperfect, so let’s get mad or unhappy.</p>
<p>I think you read right, I am starting to learn its best just to move on from certain things as opposed to trying to fight them.</p>
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		<title>By: Lyman Reed</title>
		<link>http://creatingabetterlife.net/2008/09/25/your-lips-say-no-but-your-eyes-say-yes/comment-page-1/#comment-16738</link>
		<dc:creator>Lyman Reed</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 13:45:13 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Derek - Absolutely... whether you call it a vibration or not, the more a person&#039;s thoughts match up to their actions, the better their results will be.

@Brad - You hit that nail yourself when you said that unhappiness can come from exaggerating those things that are &quot;wrong&quot;.  The cool thing about life, though, is that those things that are &quot;right&quot; always outnumber the things that are wrong.  Life is just set up that way... otherwise it never would have continued.  So if exaggerating the good works, great!  But I&#039;m not so sure it&#039;s necessary... just looking around consciously is usually enough for me.

More on &quot;But How&quot; coming in the follow up post.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Derek &#8211; Absolutely&#8230; whether you call it a vibration or not, the more a person&#8217;s thoughts match up to their actions, the better their results will be.</p>
<p>@Brad &#8211; You hit that nail yourself when you said that unhappiness can come from exaggerating those things that are &#8220;wrong&#8221;.  The cool thing about life, though, is that those things that are &#8220;right&#8221; always outnumber the things that are wrong.  Life is just set up that way&#8230; otherwise it never would have continued.  So if exaggerating the good works, great!  But I&#8217;m not so sure it&#8217;s necessary&#8230; just looking around consciously is usually enough for me.</p>
<p>More on &#8220;But How&#8221; coming in the follow up post.</p>
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		<title>By: Brad Isaac</title>
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		<dc:creator>Brad Isaac</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 02:39:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I think you hit the nail on the head when you said we can cut out the middleman and just be happy now.  But how?

I read recently that unhappiness is over-focusing on the small things that are wrong.  Something or someone is imperfect, so let&#039;s get mad or unhappy.

Perhaps happiness is just over-focus on what&#039;s right.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think you hit the nail on the head when you said we can cut out the middleman and just be happy now.  But how?</p>
<p>I read recently that unhappiness is over-focusing on the small things that are wrong.  Something or someone is imperfect, so let&#8217;s get mad or unhappy.</p>
<p>Perhaps happiness is just over-focus on what&#8217;s right.</p>
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		<title>By: lymanreed (Lyman Reed)</title>
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		<dc:creator>lymanreed (Lyman Reed)</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 26 Sep 2008 02:18:14 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>New blog post: Your Lips Say No, But Your Eyes Say Yes http://tinyurl.com/3u788h</description>
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		<title>By: Affirmations and Abraham - Contemplate This</title>
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		<dc:creator>Affirmations and Abraham - Contemplate This</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 23:49:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<title>By: Dereck Coatney</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dereck Coatney</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 25 Sep 2008 21:26:32 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great post. I agree that the fundamental step that leads to the biggest breakthroughs is the moment when there is a kind of harmony between what we think and say on the one hand and what we&#039;re physically doing in the world on the other.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great post. I agree that the fundamental step that leads to the biggest breakthroughs is the moment when there is a kind of harmony between what we think and say on the one hand and what we&#8217;re physically doing in the world on the other.</p>
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