You’ve set the intention to consciously use the Law of Attraction (LOA) to design your life. You want more money, a better job and a new car. You believe it will come to you. Now your life has completely gone to the dogs! Your current car got rear-ended and it’s going to cost you a fortune to fix! Then you hear rumors of cutbacks in your company! This is not what you asked for…or is it?
Warning: The Law of Attraction: Be careful what you wish for!
One reason you’re so distressed is that you are labeling these occurences as “negative” or “bad.” This is natural, since our brain works best with labels, but it’s also causing you problems. These changes are neither bad, nor good. They just are. The problem is that what you asked for (a new car, new job and more money) has a much different vibrational frequency that what you currently have. This means that in order for you to attract what you want, you need to change your energy frequency…and “align” yourself with what you want. You only label this as “scary” or “bad” when you step out of the current moment and start to create stories.
The best way to explain this, “Something had to move your vibrational energy with something different.” (Bob Doyle). This experience that you’ve labeled as bad is a process called chemicalization. Basically it means that sometimes things have to get worse before they can get better.
This isn’t necessarily true, but is many people’s reality when they start to consciously use the LOA. There are times when what you say you want, and what you’re willing to do are very different. In order to accomplish the goal, you might need to be influenced in other ways. That is, you say you want a new car, but you’re not willing to go and buy one. So the Universe grants you your wish in another way.
There are internal struggles that might occur when what you consciously want and believe doesn’t match up with your unconscious beliefs. This is chemicalization and it’s a process of transformation.
I have a metaphor that I love to use to explain the process. Chemicalization often occurs when you make a choice to change drastically. Think of it like a forest fire…and unfortunate but sometimes necessary occurence. Burning through the forest kills a lot of things, some good, some bad, but it’s necessary. And the forest always grows back stronger and healthier. It’s the same thing happening in your life.
This is the universe responding to your request for change. You cannot control the form that this change takes. It might appear as “awful” when you’re in the middle of it, but on the other side things will make more sense. Understand that it’s just you labeling it as bad, and that it’s just the Universe “burning through” your life so that it can grow back happier, healthier, stronger and more authentic to you.
Instead of labeling chemicalization as bad, view it as a good thing. Frame your situation with a new perspective; see this as a way for you to start fresh! Yes, you wanted a new car, new job and more money. The Universe is beginning to give you what you asked for. By getting rear-ended, you will be required to get a new car because it costs too much to fix the old one. Maybe the fear of getting laid off gave you the incentive to work harder and boost your productivity. Your boss notices your new ambitions and promotes you. You now have your new car, new job and more money. That is just one example in an infinite number of possibilities for how the situation will play out.
Our minds are very limited, but the Universe is not. Time to let go of control and trust in something bigger than yourself. It’s not your job to figure out how or why. It’s your job to trust your intuition and act when you’re inspired to. Don’t view chemicalization as bad, but as an opportunity to practive true faith in receiving what you asked for!
Kimberly Englot is an Authentic-Life Coach and CEO of Authentic Self Personal Development. Her Master Life Cleanse product has already helped many individuals cut through years of life toxins holding them back. She has created a process that saves individuals time and money, essentially it’s the “easy way” to start your life free of limiting beliefs and obstacle so you can start designing your own life now! Grab more information on the Master Life Cleanse, or learn more about Kimberly and authentic-life coaching by going to her website, http://www.kimberlyenglot.com.
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I think this post is great! Didn’t think of the how the different scenarios could lead to your desired situation. Although I’ll aim for a desirable scenario also
Thanks for posting!
Thank You for the feedback Alejandro! It’s very hard to think “happy thoughts” when it feels like your life is turning upside. I just wanted to shed some light on other possibilities and outcomes.
Take Care,
Kimberly
I read a quote on Twitter recently that reminds me of this post:
“The good news is that the Law of Attraction gives you everything you ask for – the bad news is that the Law of of Attraction gives you everything you ask for.”